Allow me to paint a picture for you.
There she is. A woman, at her most vulnerable, sitting at the feet of Jesus. There is a large crowd and the people just keep coming. They are in the temple courts and the crowd is larger than normal. She won’t look up at Him or make eye contact with anyone in the crowd. Her family stands in the background, she cannot see them but she knows they are there. The commotion is hard to overlook. A woman, naked, in front of the savior of the world. But this woman did not willingly take a seat at Jesus’ feet. No, this woman, let’s call her Ashley Madison… this woman was dragged, against her will to the feet of Jesus.
Minutes prior to this scene, Ashley was in bed. Was it her bed? We don’t know, but what we do know is that she was in a bed with a man who was not her husband. She and this man were involved in something so intimate that God designed it to be shared between only a husband and a wife. They were involved in something that has the power to heal and the power to destroy lives. They were having sex. The man, maybe his name was Joshua, and Ashley were not married to one another but were engaged in sexual intimacy and they’d been caught. More notably, she’d been caught.
So many theories as to how and why exactly Ashley got caught, but we know that she found herself at the feet of Jesus, naked, ashamed and prepared to be judged and condemned. There was no turning back or denying her sin.
The only reason that makes sense in my mind is that God cared so much for Ashley’s heart that he had to sacrifice her reputation and comfort. He could not allow her to continue walking in sin and away from Him. He had been calling her name for quite some time. It started off as just a soft voice, a small twinge of guilt in the quiet. She knew it was there though. She knew and she chose to ignore it. Then the guilt started to weigh heavily, but Ashley did not listen. God started calling her name louder. Maybe there were some close calls prior to really getting caught. Maybe Joshua wasn’t the only man and the indiscretions with the other man/men had already been made known to a small few. It isn’t really clear the progression of her sin, but what I do know is that when we are choosing to walk in sin, God is not silent. He calls out our name day in and day out. He gives us so many opportunities to turn away from our flesh and walk back into his loving arms. It is impossible to look back and not see the opportunities. Ashley likely had been given those opportunities. Joshua had been given those opportunities. God was saying, I want you to repent and I want to be able to save you from the destruction that is coming. I want to give YOU the opportunity to make this right before you are forced into it, because it will be made right. Ashley didn’t listen. She didn’t take her chance and that is why she was there in front of the crowd, naked and at the feet of Jesus.
She no longer had a choice in the matter. Her sin was made public. She could no longer go to her husband and tell him of her indiscretions and deal with the consequences privately. It was unfair and the people who brought her in front of Jesus did not have her best interest in mind, but God did. He allowed Ashley to be used by those men to teach them a lesson and to remind her of His love and grace. God needed Ashley to understand that his desire is for a relationship with her. He needed her to know his love and she was not going to be able to fully do that while she continued to sleep with men who were not her husband. He was willing to sacrifice her reputation, her marriage, her everything in order to get the attention of her heart.
I can only imagine the shame Ashley would have felt while on the ground in front of Jesus. On display and without any hope of recovering. The men, attempting to catch Jesus, suggested the punishment Ashley was sure to have known was coming. Death. She would have known the consequences for being an adulteress. She would have been anticipating it from the time the door to the tent flew open and she was caught.
The amazing thing, though, is that Jesus did not condemn her. Jesus requested that the person in the crowd who had never sinned throw the first stone and not surprisingly, no one was able to throw a stone. In the end, Ashley stood there alone. Just her and Jesus and Jesus let her go free. He rescued her from the punishment that she had surely earned.
That wasn’t the end of the story, either. Yes, Ashley’s sin was made public and her life was spared, but Jesus sent her away with a command. He added responsibility to the grace that she had received. “Go now and leave your life of sin.” His concern was not for her comfort, her peace of mind or anything else. He was solely focused on her heart. To leave a life of sin is not to live a perfect life. It is to live a life focused on loving Jesus. A life that reflects God’s love. A life that has experienced and knows grace abundantly. It is to know that there is responsibility with grace. That we are not saved simply so that we can continue to sin but so that we can have eternal life, a relationship with Christ and point others to Him.
My heart aches at the news of Josh Dugger and his unfaithfulness to his wife Anna. Based on what we have learned about Josh in the last couple of months, it is clear to me that he fell into sexual sin at a very young age and never fully dealt with it. I’m not him, but I am willing to guess at what his life has been like, because I have lived it. I still live it. The guilt is overwhelming. The safeguards work but are not foolproof. Purity of heart and body is something that is easy to champion because it is something you want so badly for yourself, even in the midst of your own failure. I can almost guarantee that he had chance after chance to repent and make things right. He could have told Anna every single day and I doubt there was a day that went by that he was not prompted to do so. There were probably days where the prompting was so strong that his body was physically rejecting the idea of coming clean. I remember the last time I had to admit to one of my BIG lies. For weeks, I was sick to my stomach. My skin crawled. I broke out into sweats. I knew what I had to do, but I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. I would bet money that Josh experienced these things too. That he had set his mind to confessing several times, that he heard the cry of the Lord in his heart and then eventually backed down before actually telling his secrets. The opportunities were there. He didn’t take them. And now, he is sitting at the feet of Jesus in the temple courts, naked and ashamed. His wife and family are in the background, heartbroken, stunned and wondering how they could have been so blind. Josh, like Ashley, knows what he deserves. Also like Ashley, though, Jesus has offered him grace and the responsibility of “go now and leave your life of sin.”
So here is to you, my friends who are naked and ashamed. My friends whose sin has been made public and you are terrified of what will happen next. Know that Jesus offers you the same grace he offered the adulteress woman, the same grace he has offered me and has offered Josh Dugger. My friends who have been caught, know that it is not too late to go and leave your life of sin. And to you, my friends who are ignoring the whisperings, or maybe the shouts, of the holy spirit, please follow His prompting before you end up naked in front of the crowd. It will happen. He loves you too much to let you settle in where you are. You will not be able to keep up the charade. Find someone you trust and begin the process of coming clean because that sweet, unending grace is for you too. As someone who daily struggles with these exact things but has been redeemed and saved, my heart longs for the same for you. Every day, I am critically aware of the fact that I am just one bad decision away from my own scandal. My friends, His grace is enough!